So... my cousin is getting married tomorrow. She's... 25 or 26 I think? Anyway, I wasn't invited to the wedding. She didn't invite any of her first cousins, which is kind of weird (because there's only 5 of us, and of the 5 of us, only 1 would bring a date, so it's only 6 extra people). But my mom and dad, and the rest of her aunts and uncles are invited. I think it's sort of weird we're not invited but I'm not super insulted because it's a fairly small wedding, and I'm not THAT close to her; especially in the past 5 years or so I've probably only seen her a few times. But she did write me a really nice graduation note and give me a present last year; and our family isn't that big so we're not super distant or anything.
But my question is... would it be weird for me to write on her wall? Or, like... my other cousin, her sister, is 17 and I talk to her and see her more, and if/when she puts pictures of it up on Facebook, would it be weird for me to comment on them?
I just don't know if it would put my cousin getting married, or her younger sister, in a weird position to be like "Thanks! Sorry I didn't invite you...." if I say she looked really pretty, it looked fun, I hope the wedding went well, etc.??
I don't want her to think I don't care, but I don't want to put her in an awkward place where she'll feel bad for not inviting me or her other cousins, because obviously it's her choice and I'm not terribly offended so I don't want to make her feel guilty.